Being INFJ type can certainly FEEL like a disadvantage very often as this INFJ female knows only too well. I can´t tell you just how many times I have asked myself, “Why can´t I just be like everyone else?” But at the same time, how often can I actually come across a person who I could want to be like? Because quite fankly, there are very few amongst the “EVERYONE ELSE” group that I would want to be like.